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Our featured interview this month is with the world renowned numerologist, Glynis McCants. Affectionately known as the Numbers Lady, Glynis is gifted, outrageous, hysterically funny, and totally brilliant. She has taken the ancient system of numerology, and turned it into a modern relationship code which she teaches us how to crack, in her latest book, Love By the Numbers Glynis believes that if we understand our numbers, and the vibrations they carry, we can not only find true love, for the first time, but we can also reignite love that has lost its way.

Kathryn: Glynis thanks so much for taking time out of your busy schedule to do this interview with me. I have to tell you how very much I enjoyed reading your new book, Love By The Numbers.

Glynis: Thank you. I love that book. It was a labor of love and it was a lot of work.

Kathryn: Oh, I can imagine it was a lot of work. And what I love about it the most is your positive attitude. It shows that you truly are a born romantic.

Glynis: Oh yeah… well you know, I am crazy in love with my husband Charlie. Of course, I am sure you got that when you were reading the book.

Kathryn: Yes, absolutely!

Glynis: Kathryn, I am really, really so crazy in love - like actively, everyday - I can’t get over Charlie at all and that is such a wonderful feeling. It’s what I want for everybody. I now know that is what my life’s purpose is all about- helping other people to fall madly in love.

Kathryn: Well, you’ve certainly succeeded at that, in a huge way, with Love ByThe Numbers. It is an excellent manual for helping people to fall in love and to keep that love alive. Before we talk anymore about that, Glynis, would you please give our readers a short history of numerology - it is such an incredibly fascinating subject.

Glynis: I always say numerology is the science of numbers. It is roughly twenty-five hundred years old. Pythagoras was the creator of the system and the belief is that everything in the universe has a vibration. They always say if there is communication in the universe, it always involves mathematics. Now, Pythagoras not only created the science of numbers, but he also discovered harmonics in music. If you look at numbers and music, they’re the same. An 8 and a 5 make strange sounds and so do an eight and a five person coming together. When you meet someone and think to yourself, “Hmm, that person just gave me a bad vibe”, there is a very good chance it’s their numbers. Chances are they are a real challenge to you. Numbers interact in three ways: you have the Natural Match, which feels like heaven on earth. With a Natural Match, you can lift your eyebrow, and the other person will know exactly what you are thinking, and that’s great! Compatible Numbers mean you can learn to agree to disagree. A Challenge Number, which I also refer to as toxic, means that no matter what you say, it’s like speaking two different languages. This causes a tremendous breakdown in communication. Now, if you and your partner have a lot of Challenge Numbers in your Personal Numerology Charts, what happens is, all you do is focus on your relationship and you have no time for anything else.

Kathryn: Nobody wants that kind of relationship…

Glynis: No, and yet, we have all been through it. We can all think of a bad love affair where we were so in love, or so we thought, and yet, it was so unhealthy. Well, chances are, there were a lot of Challenge Numbers in there.

Kathryn: And you say in your book, a lot of times the relationship that has a lot of Challenge Numbers in it will also be the most lustful.

Glynis: Yes, Challenge Numbers can promote sexual chemistry.

Kathryn: So, people in these Challenge Number relationships will usually think they are in love, but it’s not necessarily the real thing, right?

Glynis: Correct. It’s kind of like when you have difficulty communicating, it can turn into, “shut up, and let’s have sex!” What you are really we can’t seem to have a decent conversation, but I love how it feels when we are in bed together. And that’s not a good sign – because it is not enough. Boy… is it not enough.

Kathryn: Glynis, can you give me just a quick overview of the Vibration each number emits:

Glynis: Sure. You know, on my website: www.numberslady.com , people can get a six-page report called Are We Soulmates? that will tell them all about their relationship. Any of your readers from Kinetics can get a discount on their report( type the word “kinetics” in the promo code when you order a reading). But let’s take a quick look at the numbers, and keep in mind that we can all go to the negative side of our numbers, from time to time.

A Number 1 Vibration- The positive side of the 1 Vibration is that they can be a pioneer, and always strive to be the best at what they do. If living on the Negative side of the 1 vibration: They can be very critical of themselves and other people. A

Number 2 Vibration – The positive side of the 2 Vibration is that they are very loving, and are fiercely loyal. If living on the Negative side of the 2 Vibration: When they get so hurt in love that they can shut down emotionally and carry around a lot of resentment.

A Number 3 Vibration – The positive side of the 3 Vibration is that they are great communicators with a tremendous sense of humor, and a natural ability to give advice. If living on the Negative side of the 3 Vibration: They will exaggerate the truth of what really happened when they tell a story, and will be accused of being dishonest.

A Number 4 Vibration – The positive side of the 4 Vibration is that they seek knowledge, and have the ability to teach others what they have learned. If living on the Negative side of the 4 Vibration: If a 4 Vibration catches you in a lie, they will not forgive you, and will never let you live it down.

A Number 5 Vibration – The positive side of the 5 Vibration is that they love to celebrate life, are Natural detectives, and know how to give the perfect gift. If living on the Negative side of the 5 Vibration: It can be very difficult for the 5 to settle down and really commit to anyone or anything. They do get bored easily.

A Number 6 Vibration – The positive side of the 6 Vibration is that they are the nurturer and very good at damage control. If living on the Negative side of the 6 Vibration: The 6 Vibration will fear that if they do not do it themselves, it will not get done. So the people in their lives will feel that they are way too controlling.

A Number 7 Vibration – This one is real simple – they either thank God or they think they’re God!

A Number 8 Vibration – The positive side of the 8 Vibration is that they are efficient, and will find ways to establish financial security. As a result, they will be generous to the people in their lives. If living on the Negative side of the 8 Vibration: The 8 Vibration will fear that no matter how much money they have, it will never be enough. They will hang onto to every penny.

A Number 9 Vibration – The positive side of the 9 Vibration is that they are the humanitarian and natural leader, here to make the world a better place. If living on the Negative side of the 9 Vibration: The 9 can come off as condescending and patronizing.

Kathryn: So, Glynis, how and when did you become interested in numerology?

Glynis: As you can imagine, it found me, or I would not be this consistently accurate. This is a gift straight from God. I’m a Catholic, and I am devout. I love my faith; I pray and I go to church all the time. Numerology fell into my lap. What happened was: my heart was broken and I wasn’t able to get over my first love and she looked at my numbers and said, “Glynis you know what? You are not missing him; you are mourning the loss of his sister and his mother, because they are a Natural Match to you in numerology! So when you go to their house, you feel their love and their energy and you give him all the credit for this feeling. Yet it’s not him you miss, it’s them!” Kathryn, when she told me that, the pain in my heart just melted away. What she said made so much sense. After that, I picked up a book on numerology.I read the basic definitions of the numbers 1 through 9 and from that day forward I could read anyone. But I did not think much of it. You know, I did not care because it was so darn easy for me. And at the time, I was busy doing stand up comedy. I ‘m double 3 in numerology, and the number 3 is the natural comedian.

Kathryn: Wow…stand-up comedy, I didn’t know you’d done that…

Glynis: Yeah…I was doing stand up and I started to implement numerology into the jokes. Well, I understood clearly that with a 3 life path I was here to motivate and uplift other people. I felt making people laugh was a good way to make them happy. However, if I could make someone happy for a life time – what a blessing that would be. That’s when I took all of these tools and just kicked it up a notch. Actually, the turning point came when I was on KFI Talk Radio. I went there for comedy and I was supposed to do a twenty minute interview. At some point, I mentioned numerology and the phone lines went berserk… I was there for three hours! The” on hold” lights were red on the phone, and they made me think of little red heart beats on the telephone. There were 15 lines; the people would ask a question and I always had the answer. They were all so grateful and it was just an epiphany for me because I had been very prayerful about my career. I’d been asking, “Why am I not where I need to be?” After that radio show, I heard this voice say, “There you go.” I knew this was it. I had finally discovered my true life purpose.

Kathryn: So, this is a perfect place for us to talk about numerology Blueprint.

Glynis: Yes. It is sacred. It’s the first and the last name that you go by today, which adds up to the three vibrations you’re putting out right now. For example, if you meet a guy who goes by the name Stephen Smith, but you call him Steve, then you break down Steve Smith. Your numerology blueprint is your first and last name and your full date of birth. There are three numbers in the birth date, three numbers in the name and that is the blue print. So, when you do a chart comparison, that’s the first thing, you want to check out. You want to look at those six numbers against your own.

Kathryn: So you don’t use the name as it appears on someone’s birth certificate?

Glynis: No, the birth certificate name will give you your Destiny Number and Destiny Number lets you know where you are headed. But when you are doing a chart comparison, you are focusing on the six numbers, not the Destiny Number. The Destiny Number and Maturity Number will give you some other insights (both of those are covered in, Love By the Numbers) but to me these two Numbers are accents of who we are, like little messages down the road. When you say blueprint, though, you are talking about what that person’s name is right now with the full date of birth.

Kathryn: Okay. That makes perfect sense. Now, some numerologists believe that the most important, of all your numbers, is the day you’re born. Do you agree with that?

Glynis: No! That’s simply not true, not at all. Now, let me explain why. If you do not fulfill the purpose of your Life Path Number (which is created when you take the full date of birth and reduce it to one digit), you will not feel happy. You will not be content. That Life Path Number is sacred. The day you are born is the appearance number. It describes how you appear. Now I will give you an example: there are some people we call, what you see is what you get. I was born on a three day, the twelfth (1+2=3). My full date of birth also reduces down to a three. So that means I appear as I really am. But let’s say I was born on an 8 day, and I am a 3 Life Path, you’re going to think I ‘m one thing and I’m not, because I appear one way, but that is not who I really am.

Kathryn: Okay, I am born on the 11th.

Glynis: Oh yeah, which is a Master Number, but what is your Life Path number?

Kathryn: I’m an 8 life path.

Glynis: Well, okay here’s the deal. The Master Numbers are 11 and 22. I teach that when you see these numbers, you are called to master our life. You should light a white candle and ask what you are here to do. You should meditate and do yoga, but then you have to bring the Master Number down to what it really is, which is a 2 (1+1=2). A 2 means you’re psychically in tune, extremely intuitive and considerate of other people’s feelings. In fact, you can be in tune to other people’s feelings, to the point that you sometimes understand what they do, before they have even figured it out. Now, there are Natural Match Categories. It’s very important that we include this in the interview: The 3-6-9 are creative minded, The 2-4-8 are business minded, and the 1-5-7 are cerebral- always thinking. Because you were born on a 2 day and you are an 8 Life Path you fall into the “what you see is what you get” category like I do.

Kathryn: Very interesting! So, my husband’s birthday is on the 20th day of the month and he is a a 6 Life Path. What do the numbers have to say about us?

Glynis: The first thing would be love, because you share the 2 Vibration. Then, his Life Path is a 6. The 6 Life Path and the 8 Life Path are very compatible, so you have a wonderful love match connection.

Kathryn: Oh, most definitely…

Glynis: So, because those numbers are not in conflict and still compatible, he’s also what you see is what you get. But, I have to tell you, if he was a 5 birth day and a 6 Life Path, the duality in his personality would make you crazy ! Luckily, that is not the case. With him, he lets you know EXACTLY who he is. He can’t hide it. If he is hurting, it is in his eyes. If he is upset it’s right there. Yet, he feels he is king of the castle and needs to be respected. Being looked up to and appreciation goes a long way with him.

Kathryn: You’re absolutely correct there.

Glynis: So, that is how it works. When we hook up with someone who has duality in the day they were born versus their life path, you are dealing with two people. Here is another example: I am a double 3 so, that’s easy - what you see is what you get. My husband is a 6 birth day nd a 4 Life Path, very compatible in the same way a 2 Birth Day and 6 Life Path is compatible with your husband. So that is how it works. Please send out the memo to any numerologist who thinks the day you are born is the most important, because it is not.

Kathryn: Alright, I got that message loud and clear. And, Glynis, you also write in Love By The Numbers about how numerology can help a failing marriage.

Glynis: Absolutely. But before we get into that, I want to say one more thing about those birth numbers that are so important. The month and the day equals the Attitude Number and that is also very telling. If your Attitude number is different from the Life Path, you need to know what it is. Now, in your case, it’s a 7. The 7 is spirituality - it’s all about God. If you have faith, then you are terrific. If you don’t have faith, you will be cynical and negative.You see why that is so important? If I saw that 7 Vibration in somebody, I’d ask about their faith. If they said, “Well, I just don’t know about that…blah, blah, blah” I would be like uh-oh, run! Because I’d know it is a 7 Living on the negative side of the Vibration. But if they’d go to the sweet place of saying how they believe in all that is good, that would make sense because of the 7. The other thing it tells me about you, although you are a very social person, you are also a loner. And if you don’t get that alone time, you will go nuts.

Kathryn: Oh, you are so right.

Glynis: Yeah, you have to let people know that you’re sorry, no offense to anyone, but you have to re-group and re-group means by yourself. The other thing is that you are an observer. You can be very social, and you don’t miss a trick. If it is a party environment, you notice everything that is going on.

Kathryn: That is so true.

Glynis: Yeah, so that is your 7 attitude, and your husband is a nine.

Kathryn: Is that 9 good with the 7?

Glynis: Well no, it’s considered a Challenge, but Challenges are okay, unless you have nothing but Challenges. Like on paper, right now, you and your husband’s Life Paths are compatible. The days you were born are a Natural Match, and then your Attitude Numbers are a Challenge. And here is why: Dannion’s got the humanitarian number 9 as his Attitude Number. The 9 Attitude is the old soul who is called to help heal the planet. How do they shut it down? You know they don’t know how to. He also may have some issues with the original family, and it is something that he has had to deal with. I’m sure it sometimes haunts him and that can be a problem.

So I think you know how to step back and let him deal with whatever that is. But remember, that when the time comes for your number 7 Attitude to shut down, he may not always understand. If you know each others Attitude Number, no one can take it personally. No one can be offended. If he understand this, he’ll think that you’re living in your 7 now, so he can go into his 9. And I believe what makes numerology so great is that it offers some understanding where there wasn’t any before.

Kathryn: Oh, my word, Glynis, you have completely dazzled me with your precise knowledge and insight into my marriage. I’d love to hear how you met your wonderful husband.

Glynis: Actually, I found him on a dating site. I kept thinking that I needed to be more proactive in finding love for myself! Now, mind you, I’d been married before, but I did not do numerology back then. I was first married in my twenties and it was a bit of a nightmare. So, afterwards I decided I had to manifest a great guy. So I did my relationship affirmation, which I teach in the book and then I went to the dating site and I wrote, “Numerologist looking for a man who’s really got my number.” [Laugh.] That’s really what the headline said.

Kathryn: Oh my, I love it!

Glynis: When I did that a lot of men responded, and then, Charlie showed up. But before Charlie, there was a guy who lied about his birthday. What was so funny was that as I got to know him and found myself thinking that his numbers just didn’t add up. I mean, he was not acting like the numbers he led me to believe he had. So, after about six weeks into the relationship, he finally came clean. He admitted he’d lied about the year he was born because he didn’t look his age; he was gorgeous. He was 50 and he looked40, so he lied. Anyway, I ended that but I stayed friends with him. Well, I had already seen pictures of Charlie and I’d read about him so, I made a deal for myself. It was really late one evening and I decided if he answered the phone and we chatted, I’m going to give him a shot. Well, he answered the phone and we talked for 4 hours! The joke about that is, now that I know Charlie, he hits the sack at 9:00 o’clock at night, so for him to pick up the phone at 11:00 o’clock and talk till 3 AM was amazing!

Kathryn: What a great beginning…

Glynis: Yes, but I did not want to meet him too quickly because I think people always move too fast when it comes to getting physically involved. So he called me in the morning, at noon and at night. You know, for all those little things like, Hey…I just wanted to wish you a good morning! Yeah, I hope you had a good lunch. You know, those little things; nothing intrusive. He was never anything but kind.

Kathryn: That’s really adorable and very thoughtful.

Glynis: Always! He would send me these wonderful CD’s of music that he loved. And then he would send me video tapes that he made of himself. I would watch them over and over to study his face and I was just in love before I ever met him. Of course, I never told him that because that is certainly grounds to make Men run for the hills. So finally I felt it was time after about 4 or 5 months into it. I’d just finished a pilot, and I thought okay that stress is over, and now, I’m going to meet this guy. So, I called him and I was with a group of friends - and all of the people who are part of the show - and I said, “Charlie I want to meet you tonight.” He told me he’d just left the gym and really couldn’t change and everything in time. I told him not to worry about; if he wanted to meet me, just to come. Well… he did!

Kathryn: Oh, my goodness…this just gets better by the minute, Glynis…

Glynis: Oh, my Goodness…he walked in and he was so cute! It turned out that he had gone to Annapolis and is very smart. He has a Masters in Civil Engineering, and he also has a Masters in Statistical Analysis. So he is a numbers expert in his own right. And what turned out to be so precious about him was, since we’d talked all the time, he knew everybody and everything about them - without knowing them. So, he said things like, “Oh, Tamarie, that was such a beautiful gown that you made Glynis for Christmas” or “Lisa, you are such a good producer.” It was hysterical to watch him work the room through the knowledge he had through me.

Kathryn: Wow, Charlie turned out to be quite the charmer, huh?

Glynis: Yes indeed…so finally everyone cleared out of the room and I turned to Charlie and told him there was something I wanted to say. And then I went to kiss him and that kiss lasted for forty-five minutes. It was ridiculous. By the time he left, my lipstick was all over his face and his forehead. It was hysterical. Then, a couple of days later, he cooked me the most amazing meal I had ever had.

Kathryn: You’re kidding…he cooks too?

Glynis: Oh, yes! I’m from a family of thirteen; he loves to cook for my entire family on holidays. And he decorates on holidays. This man came straight from God. On Halloween, he turns out home into a haunted mansion! He turns our home for Christmas into a winter wonderland. He is heaven on earth and he is mine.

Kathryn: Isn’t that the most fabulous story?

Glynis: Yes, and it is completely mutual. Everyday still seems like a celebration, you know.

Kathryn: And how long has it been now?

Glynis: Seven years.

Kathryn: Seven years…and did you use numerology to pick your wedding day?

Glynis: Of course, it was October 30, 2004. So, that is five years married; seven years together. The date was very deliberate, as it is covered in the book. I am a 3 life path, so the date was the 30th (3 + 0 = 3). Charlie is a 4 life path. Well, the Attitude number comes from the month and the day (1+0+3+0=4), when you reduce it. So, we got a 4 and a 3 and when you add the whole thing up - October 30, 2004 - and reduce it to one digit, it becomes a 1. So, my statement was, on that day, the 3 and the 4 became one.

Kathryn: Oh, my gosh! That is beyond perfect, Glynis.

Glynis: Well clearly, [Laugh].

Kathryn: For our readers, can you share what the formula is for picking the perfect wedding day? In other words, is there a universally good day for marriage? I know that some numerologists say that a 2 day is a perfect day to marry for continued romantic love and a 6 day promises a happy family.

In a couple that both share a number 5 Life Path. Well, a 2 Vibration is a Challenge for them, so it’s not a good day for them.

Kathryn: Got it.

Glynis: That is why you can never say that, as much as I would love to because the 2 is my favorite number in numerology. I have a 2 Attitude and I know a whole lot about that wonderful 2 energy. But it would be a disservice to make it a blanket statement. It is not. And with the number 6, it is a family vibration and really good for bringing people together, but if a couple doesn’t have 6s in their chart, it may not be good for them. So again, the best thing that they could do is to look at their charts and see what number they share. Chances are if you are with someone they love, there is no way they don’t have a number in common. If you don’t - I‘d say run - life is too short! This is why I know am and so deeply in love with Charlie. I am a 3 life path and he is a 4. The 4 is a challenge to me.

Kathryn: I was going to say that is not a Natural Match.

Glynis: It does not matter. Why? Because before the 4 becomes a 4 Life Path, there are two numbers right before it reduces to one digit. Now, all of this is covered in the book in the chapter titled, Toxic Life Paths: Is There Any Hope? Well, Charlie is a 31/4 Life Path. I am a 30/3 Life Path. We share the 3 for laughter and communication, and that is all we ever do. Then, he’s got a1 for ambition and drive, and my Destiny Number is a 1. So when you do your numerology onion, and start peeling all of those layers, you are going to find why we pick the people we do.

Kathryn: Yes, and honoring our differences helps us to keep the spice in our relationships. I don’t think most of us want someone who is just like us. Of course, we want someone who understands and appreciates us, but not someone who is necessarily identical in everyway. Now, let’s talk about the ways you believe we can keep the love alive in marriage. I loved your tips on reigniting the flame. I want to touch on each one of them and the first one is date night.

Glynis: You know, the funniest thing about me with Charlie, is that I think we go on a date about three or four times a week. We are just out of line! I mean, we are like kids playing together! But what happens to most couples, is they become overloaded during the day and get tired. Then, at night time, it is real easy not to want to be romantic. It becomes easy not to want to make love and that’s not okay. Why? Because what makes that relationship so unique is that THIS IS the one and only person that you are intimate with. This is the person you make love to. So if you cut that off - what is going to happen to the romance? Before you know it, one of you will find someone else. It’s easy. It may start as an innocent flirtation. It begins as an emotional thing, but before you know it, it becomes physical. So, date night is one of the ways to stop that from happening, by reconnecting with each other and going to places that have the ambiance where you can really visit and catch up with each other. It keeps you love alive and reminds you: this is my significant other! This is that special person in my life. So yeah, that’s your date night.

Kathryn: That is so very important. And I love the next one - a day without criticism.

Glynis: Oh, you bet, that is a good one. Again, you can decide how often you should do it. I pretty much have a scar on my tongue, at this point, because I am good about biting my tongue. I am not going to mess with Charlie! A day without criticism literally means just letting them have it their way; it’s their day. You are literally being respectful and looking at only what is good about them. You don’t discuss anything that is wrong, and that is the day that without criticism, but in a way, it is a day of praise. Because it becomes a day devoted to what is good and wonderful about your loved one. I do also believe that there has got to be a way to take, maybe an hour a week, just to go over what needs to be fixed in the relationship.

Kathryn: Now, I think that is an excellent idea! If we can stop any nagging and it put it on hold until lunch Saturday afternoon, our relationships can enjoy a lot more peace during the week.

Glynis: Yeah, and nobody has to dread it. This is just an hour we spend together to figure out how we can fix what’s not going well.

Kathryn: Absolutely, it’s just like preventative maintenance for your marriage. I also appreciate when you wrote, ‘don’t complain, just do it’. This point of view really helps to alleviate the buildup of so much resentment.

Glynis: And this kind of resentment can ultimately lead to divorce. There are so many people who break up because ‘he did not do what he said he would do’.

Kathryn: Sure, like he never emptied the dish washer or he refused to empty the garbage...

Glynis: You know what? We all need to cut it out. Stop thinking that it’s his job. Now, mind you, when you read my book, you’ll see that I do not believe in serving time on the planet with someone. I do believe in being actively in love. But to resent someone who is not fixing what you normally would have fixed yourself, if you were single, is a problem you’ve got to look at. If you can fix it, or hire someone to fix it, just do it yourself. Then there is no anger and it’s not building and seething inside you until one day you explode. You know, there are certain people who just keep it inside and they seethe. Then one day they leave and the partner is in shock. They didn’t even know they’d done anything wrong, because it was never discussed. Well, that’s not fair either.

Kathryn: Not at all yet, how very common that is.

Glynis: But if you are staying actively in love, you are really are communicating.

Kathryn: I want to talk about your use of affirmations.

Glynis: Oh, affirmations are so important. I have always used affirmations to solve the problem. So my love affirmation is really important. I teach the reader, as you can see in the book, how to personalize the affirmation. There are basics that you need to use and then, others you just have to fix. Like if your issue is that a man cheats on you and that’s all you’ve attracted, then your affirmation must be for a man who loves commitment, who welcomes it. See, you’ve got go to the opposite. Let’s say you’ve had a man who is comfortable spending your money, which is so wrong, then you’ve got to affirm for a man who is financially stable and generous.

Kathryn: Oh, that’s excellent.

Glynis: Yes, so my book teaches how to do that and I personally had done that for six solid weeks right before I met Charlie.

Kathryn: What was your affirmation?

Glynis: Well, it was: I welcome a lovely, nurturing relationship, with a man who is financially stable and emotionally available to me. A man who is honest, passionate and funny, who will be my equal and my lifetime partner.

Kathryn: You state in Love by the Numbers that you really believe there is someone special for everyone.

Glynis: I believe there is more than one special person for all of us, no question! I believe all of us have our own capacity to love, so when you get frustrated with someone chances are, they don’t have the capacity to love to the degree you do. I have a huge capacity to love and all my exes are my friends to this day. Yet, Charlie is my best friend; he is love of my life. But, I firmly believe if you know numbers, you can have great love again. For example, let’s say a woman lost her husband and he was the love of her life. If she can track down his numbers, similar numbers in someone else, especially the Life Path and Birth Day Number, she will feel that special connection again.

Kathryn: She will feel it again? Seriously, you believe that it’s possible again, just through the right numbers?

Glynis: We are all vibrations, and when you know which Vibrations make you happy, it is possible to find it again.

Kathryn: Okay, so you believe that everybody has a chance to find real love in this lifetime.

Glynis: Everyone can have phenomenal love if they are proactive about in getting it.

Kathryn: Then, why is it that so many people are not finding the love they desire?

Glynis: Because they don’t believe it. They do not believe it is possible, and that is why I said okay… get on your affirmations. Reprogram that mind of yours. Stop thinking it does not exist for you, because the universe, as we know, has only one answer. And the answer is YES! So, if I say there is no love for me, the answer is, YES, there is no love for you. If I say that there is great love for me… then YES, there is great love for me. So until they get the universe in alignment with what they really want, they do not stand a chance. That is why I said, God did not put you on a planet with millions of people, so you could be alone; there is no way. So, that is the answer. They don’t have love because they think they can’t have it. They have blinders on that make sure they keep repeating the pattern. If I say, “All the men I meet are alcoholic,” with those blinders on that is the only kind of man I’m going to meet - that same alcoholic guy. So I have to break the pattern. Affirmations are the only way you can do it.

Kathryn: You are so right on…I just love it, Glynis, you have nailed the game of love. By the numbers, through the power of thought and the law of attraction we will bring to ourselves exactly what we believe in. Thank you so much for explaining all of this in such a humorous and succinct way. Before we end this interview, I have to ask you a couple of questions about the future.

Glynis: Sure.

Kathryn: What significance do you think exists in the vibration of December 21, 2012?

Glynis: I have to tell you that I am really over all the hype on this subject, and I will tell you why. They are trying to make something that is good, bad. And I don’t like when they do that. I know that people are out there who are panicking. They are thinking it could be the end of the world and it’s not true. 12-21-2012 is a lovely date in numerology. Let’s just break it up. The actual day (the 21st) is a three day, which is lovely, because that’s communication and laughter. You take the attitude of the day, 1+2+2+1=6. Then add the whole thing up, it becomes a 2, which is love, peace and harmony. Okay, this is what I know. The year 2012 itself is difficult, because 2+0+1+2 =5 and the 5 means never a dull moment, and where life is moving very fast. So, what’s going to happen with all of these people obsessing about it? Some bad things are going to happen on that day, but strictly because of the belief that it is supposed to, but it is not true.

Now what it does represent is a new beginning, for the way we think. We, as people, all we are doing is healing. When the Millennium happened the year 2000, it became a time when we came to see that we are all in this together. When someone is killed in Iraq, you may as well have killed someone here. Everyone gets hurt, we all get hurt together. I even believe, right now, the planet is responding to that. There is a lot of turmoil right now. There’s a lot of fear happening surrounding our new administration. The country is broke… get a memo, it really is. So, please stop. Healthcare needs to be fixed, its true, but it the United States can not afford to go broke to achieve it. We have got to come up with the money first. We have to be able to read the Health care plan, so we are all clear. When there is no clarity, there is fear. I think all these earthquakes, and stuff, right now is because of all this fear. The earth is actually responding to us.

Kathryn: Yes, She is responding to our collective fear and trepidation.

Glynis: Correct.

Kathryn: Is there anything else coming up in the immediate future that we need to be aware of?

Glynis: Well, 2010 is going to be a biggie because it adds up to a 3 year( 2010=2+0+1+0=3), and 2001 was also a 3 year. We certainly saw what happened then. And 1929 was also a 3 World Year, so I say we have to really take a good look at the value of our dollar, the economy and everything else. That’s why I am concerned about passing another stimulus package that is going to cost America a ton of money. You know, I don’t walk in fear, but I know when something feels wrong! Then, I look at the pattern of the 3 World Year pattern, and I realize it can represent that, we have to pay attention to those things.

But what makes Americans so cool is that when we are in crisis, we are actually at our best. Whatever we go through in the year 2010, by year’s end, we will have to have found our sense of humor. Because the 3 Vibration also encourages laughter, and even when the depression hit way back when, it made families closer. We have too many material things that are destroying us, like the cell phones, computers, etc…

Kathryn: I couldn’t agree more with you. There are so many things distracting us from what is really important today.

Glynis: Correct! And most importantly, it is hurting relationships. Twitter, Facebook, MySpace…what are we doing? Are we really communicating? No, we’ve lost that personal, human touch. So, what I’d like to see in 2010, when things get really weird, is that we go back to real communication. Our sincerity meters are in trouble. I’m talking about a real phone call versus a cursory text message. We have to learn to reach out and genuinely touch one another again. Learning our Personal Numerology can facilitate that in a huge way.

Kathryn: Thank you, Glynis, for sharing such fabulous insight! I wish you the very best of luck with your new book, Love by the Numbers.

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