As a psychic one of the top questions I am always asked is about love. Is he/she in love with me? When is it coming? Will he/she come back? What should I do to get it? The questions are endless. Sometimes I even get a client that keeps asking me the same question in a hundred different ways, over and over again, looking for me to give them the answer they want to hear. Being willful will not change the path of destiny or my answers to them. I see what I see for that moment. However, the element of Free Will is always at play and has a domino effect on the outcome. There are always possibilities, no matter what a psychic says, because in addition to our acts of free will - a Divine Destiny (or Fate) does exist. It plays a role in our lives for our own greater good and the greatest good of all.

The Human Condition

Despite what some people might say about the differences between men and women, when it comes to love - we are all the same. The human condition usually has us looking for human love to satisfy us and put us in a blissful state, but this is only a temporary fix at best. Life always manages to get in the way to make sure that blissful state doesn’t stay constant. Our life is designed to be flooded with change which provides us our ups and downs for self-growth. People are just people doing the best they can, dealing with their own journey. Therefore, human love alone cannot sustain or keep us totally satisfied, although it may make our life easier and cushion the ups and downs of change. Even that fantastic, ultimate orgasm, which merges your body and soul with one another; melts you blissfully into oneness; sends that electric blue light spinning around the room (might be a psychic thing), is just at the edge of what Divine Love can provide you. We are all really searching to be part of this oneness called Divine Love. In reality when you emanate love in any form it can be just as fulfilling as a relationship love. It is a matter of re-framing your thoughts and your actions about love – to truly make it unconditional. All unconditional love is good and brings about positive change and harmony. Unconditional Love helps us connect to Divine Love. When we are in Divine Love being in or out of a human relationship makes no difference since we are filled with a higher, more fulfilling spiritual love. In the end we all pass over and the only thing we take with us is the love we gave and the love we received which energetically contributes to Divine Love. This doesn’t necessarily just mean the love from a relationship, but any loving or kind act we do or have done for anyone or anything on the planet, across our entire lifetime. So it is a good idea to be loving, kind and understanding to everyone and everything on the planet. Divine Love In my experience, Divine Love is more than an attachment, affection or physical attraction to someone or something on the Earth plane. It is the essence of life and the core component of the Light. In other words, the Light is Divine Love and it is greater than just the human bond of love. Light is at the essence of everyone and everything on the planet, in the Universe and even beyond. Some people call this Light - God, the Great Spirit, Source or any name that you may use to denote the Higher Power, but it is all the same. It is only by accessing this Light of Divine Love that we can begin to feel complete, and the good thing is, that the Light is all around and available to us all the time. It is designed to flow freely and effortlessly if we choose to access it and allow it to come into our lives. It can fill us with a lasting and changeless sense of belonging so that we can truly know that we are never alone. This connection makes us feel totally loved, all the time, despite what is happening in or around us. It gives us everything we need. Divine Love also connects the ‘ME to WE’ and makes us greater than ourselves.

Limitless Love

There is limitless Divine Love energy and when you truly tap into it, the love energy grows and extends out automatically. Divine Love is an enormous, limitless cornucopia which is always filled to capacity. It is a well that never runs dry and is supported by all positive thoughts, words and actions. To access the Light and Divine Love go beyond just looking for a human relationship. Realize that you have a loving relationship with everyone and everything in every moment. All acts of love send out the Light which affects you and everyone on the planet. Furthermore if you embrace the positive aspects of the WE, instead of just the ME, access to Divine Love is easier. You will not only feel totally loved but will learn your lessons faster, get through change faster and be supportive to the collective wholeness of the planet.

Accessing the Light

Everyone’s path to the Light of Divine Love is a personal journey. Be open to your unique way of connecting to the Light. There is really no magic formula or one exact way of thinking that anyone can teach you because your way of connecting to the Light is unique to you. Remember you are your own best teacher. You can read or learn about things but only take the part which resonates as truth to you. Here are some hints that might resonate with you. Your connection to the Light of Divine Love may be found in prayer, meditation, complete stillness or walking in nature. Try immersing yourself in that moment when you feel completely connected. Then identify the feeling of that connective energy that is suffused through your mind, body and soul. Once you know what the energetic feeling is, you are ready to start identifying what actions bring this connection to the Light in to you. What positive thoughts or actions work to make you feel good in life? Do them and you’re closer to the Light. What moment in time were you completely filled and satisfied with your life and love? In down times close your eyes and remember this time. It will help you to get back to your connection to the Light faster. One way to feel the stirring beginnings of Divine Love is to focus and encourage the positive emotions and feelings we have in each moment. This means we have to downplay or dismiss the doubts and negative feelings that seem to abound across our lives and learn to trust in the Light and Divine Love explicitly, without question. After we learn to master uninterrupted positive thought, feeling and action we are then constantly aware of our connection to the Light of Divine Love which can be accessed at any time or all the time. Focusing on the negative aspects of the “missing” love in your life, coming from want, need, expectation or trying to control the past or the future sets up a negative ‘lack of” energy vibration. This ‘lack of’ energy vibration pulsates through your very core and goes out to the Universe. Not a pretty sight, nor very effective. There are some that would say embrace your dark side, or come to peace with it. I am a believer of allowing, focusing and aspiring only on the Light. To get through hard times successfully and to help you stay in the Light my advice is to kick the dark side to the curb and as far as your Inner Child is concerned tell it to grow up. Since time is speeding up we just don’t have the time anymore to steep ourselves in diversions that take us away from accessing the Light.

Love is the Strongest Weapon

No matter how bad you feel or what negative situation you are in Divine Love is your strongest weapon. Accessing and giving out pure unconditional Divine Love CAN change and attract positive things to your life. It eliminates negativity and fear, including those ‘lack of’ love thoughts. It makes you feel complete. Remember fear is just a controlling illusion that doesn’t exist - except in our own minds. We are always enough. We always have enough and we are always exactly in the right place at the right time. Live only in the moment and start concentrating on being part of the Light and giving out unconditional love to others. This will help you attain the oneness of Divine Love.

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